Guy friends when they get a girlfriend 

I don’t trust people easily and I only have a few close friends because of that. The people who I call my close friends, I trust them with my inner thoughts. 

I always felt closer to guys as there is a lot less drama with them. It doesn’t mean I don’t argue with them, but there is much less bullshit with them than with girls. 

Israel and I have been friends for 6 years. We have always been close. He goes to NYU, but his family lives in Texas. He immigrated from Mexico. We’ve been there for each other through a lot of things. A couple years ago, he dated this girl named Lauren and then they broke up and they recently got back together. While they were broken up, we had a drunken make out when I came to NY in October. They got back together in late feb or early march. He stopped talking to me since February so I recently asked him for an explanation. He said his girlfriend is touchy as she is aware what happened even though they were not together and it did not go far. And he said, that for the next couple months that we can’t talk, but that ofcourse we are still friends. He apologized. I told him I would never do what he is doing to me. 

I may be a girl, but I will never understand how girls try to control their boyfriend because they feel threatened by a girl. I am prettier and smarter then she is, but I am not after her man. I have my own man. I’m in a relationship, I live with my boyfriend and I am trying to get pregnant. I understand he is trying to do what is right, but it is still a shitty situation. Chris is a photographer and takes photos of naked women, and I would never tell him he couldn’t speak to a certain women. I know they have nothing on me.   If Chris asked me not to talk to a friend, I would explain that we are just friends and that if he trust me enough, he wouldn’t ask me to do something like that. I also, hate that Israel is listening to her. Our friendship should mean more then this, and should be able to have me in his life at the same time. 

I hate when guys start to be in a relationship, they can act so stupid because their girlfriends get jealous. Girls should not try to ruin friendships between a guy and girl. They should deal with their own insecurities and trust their boyfriend. 


About Flora Cross

21 year old actress and teacher. Born in Paris and raised around the world. Have lived in Panama, Haiti, Ukraine, Argentina, Israel, New York, and Los Angeles for the last nine years. Want to become a teacher for children with special needs. Loved education and life. Loves literature music and anything artistic. Moving to Paris. Favorite Musicians: Janis Joplin, The Civil Wars, Ray Charles, Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Amy Winehouse, Adele, The Pretty Reckless, Birdy, Bastille, Miley Cyrus, Lorde, Macklemore, Idina Menzel, Avicii, A Great Big World, Passenger, Pink and The Beatles. Flora played the lead role of Eliza in the 2005 film Bee Season, opposite Richard Gere, Juliette Binoche and Max Minghella. She auditioned for the part shortly before moving to Argentina, where she was living when offered the role. Her next role was playing the eccentric daughter of Jennifer Jason Leigh's character in director Noah Baumbach's critically acclaimed Margot at the Wedding. In the film she worked alongside actors Nicole Kidman, Jack Black, John Turturro, and fellow teen actor Zane Pais. Flora plays the co-starring role of Cynthia in the upcoming film "Chlorine" (currently in post-production), written and directed by Jay Alaimo. The film also stars Kyra Sedgwick and Vincent D'Onofrio as Cynthia's troubled parents, and Ryan Donowho as her eccentric brother.
This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s