I don’t trust people easily and I only have a few close friends because of that. The people who I call my close friends, I trust them with my inner thoughts.
I always felt closer to guys as there is a lot less drama with them. It doesn’t mean I don’t argue with them, but there is much less bullshit with them than with girls.
Israel and I have been friends for 6 years. We have always been close. He goes to NYU, but his family lives in Texas. He immigrated from Mexico. We’ve been there for each other through a lot of things. A couple years ago, he dated this girl named Lauren and then they broke up and they recently got back together. While they were broken up, we had a drunken make out when I came to NY in October. They got back together in late feb or early march. He stopped talking to me since February so I recently asked him for an explanation. He said his girlfriend is touchy as she is aware what happened even though they were not together and it did not go far. And he said, that for the next couple months that we can’t talk, but that ofcourse we are still friends. He apologized. I told him I would never do what he is doing to me.
I may be a girl, but I will never understand how girls try to control their boyfriend because they feel threatened by a girl. I am prettier and smarter then she is, but I am not after her man. I have my own man. I’m in a relationship, I live with my boyfriend and I am trying to get pregnant. I understand he is trying to do what is right, but it is still a shitty situation. Chris is a photographer and takes photos of naked women, and I would never tell him he couldn’t speak to a certain women. I know they have nothing on me. If Chris asked me not to talk to a friend, I would explain that we are just friends and that if he trust me enough, he wouldn’t ask me to do something like that. I also, hate that Israel is listening to her. Our friendship should mean more then this, and should be able to have me in his life at the same time.
I hate when guys start to be in a relationship, they can act so stupid because their girlfriends get jealous. Girls should not try to ruin friendships between a guy and girl. They should deal with their own insecurities and trust their boyfriend.